From the category archives:

Culture War

On Thursday and Friday I will be at the Rochester Institute of Technology, as the gay group and Christian group on campus have joined together to bring me in to talk about practical applications to building bridges on campuses. Honestly, who would have ever thought the gay and conservative Christian groups on campus would come together to [...]

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The following is written by Joel Diaz (host of the podcast Youth Hacks and here is his personal website). When he told me his story based on hearing me speak and reading my book, my heart was taken back. This is so exciting! Go on with you bad self Joel! Much love brother.
“This journey began a few years [...]

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I was asked by über blogger and #1 selling recording artist Carlos Whittaker (Twitter: @loswhit) to do a video response to an email he received from a friend of his who is a pastor that ‘came out’ (even though he is celibate because of a belief in a traditional interpretation of Scripture) and was fired because [...]

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Ask Me I Dare You: Part 1

February 24, 2010 · 56 comments

In a recent post I asked you to ask me anything you were wondering. You can see it here. So far there are 12 questions, with a few others I’ve complied from previous posts. From here on out I am going to start chipping away at them once a week. The first question was asked [...]

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This post is very difficult for me to write. I am a fan of the work that GLAAD does. I think the homophobic nature of many media institutions and outlets do continue to negatively perpetuate false stereotypes, and therefore unnecessarily continue the ongoing culture war between the conservative and gay worlds. I have had history [...]

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Part 5: United Kingdom

January 9, 2010 · 3 comments

What differences do you see between the UK and the US regarding the topic of homosexuality and the response of the churches?
I will be very clear on this. Right now the UK has a unique opportunity to potentially model for the rest of the world how to properly address and work within the tensions of [...]

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Radical Hospitality

December 2, 2009 · 2 comments

A good friend of mine works for the William Penn House - a ‘Quaker Center on Capitol Hill’. Here is their definition of hospitality, and I love every word of it:
“Our goal is to simply provide hospitality – a warm place where those gathered can share their hopes, dreams, visions. Among these are family and friends. [...]

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Let me make two things very clear before I expound on why I wholeheartedly believe the title to this post is absolute truth:
1. I love Leadership Journal and Out of UR, who are both owned by Christianity Today. It amazes me how the right hand doesn’t know what it’s doing from the left hand, as [...]

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Equality March in DC

October 12, 2009 · 15 comments

Yesterday, October 11th, besides being National Coming Out Day, was the National Equality March in Washington DC. You can see the full purpose of the march here. Ultimately the three main issues on the table were:
An official repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (something the Obama administration promised in the campaign)
Gay Marriage
Hate Crimes Bill
To be [...]

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Youth are Coming Out

October 8, 2009 · 17 comments

In light of October 11th being National Coming Out Day, I thought this is an important topic to discuss.
Last week the New York Times published an article about kids in middle school coming out. You can read it here. As with most everything else in today’s culture, youth are getting exposed to, and declaring themselves [...]

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