From the category archives:

Personal Reflections

Random Thoughts

January 8, 2010 · 8 comments

I’ve been thinking about a few things recently. I’d love it if you weighed in on your thoughts and experiences regarding these statements:
-If you’re not willing to sprint towards the most tension filled places in life, than you’re not a Christ-one no matter what you tell me.
[As a side note, a good friend of mine [...]

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I woke up today realizing that today is the last day of the decade. Hello Captain Obvious! 10 years ago this day I just completed my first semester in college and my best friends had yet to ‘come out’ to me. Wow. I was quite the unsuspecting homophobe at that moment. 
Who would have [...]

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I’ve been Birthed

December 16, 2009 · 0 comments

My present to myself today, on this day that I was born 29 years ago at 8:56am, is a song that always makes me smile and helps me remember God’s glory in each and every day.
I’m so thankful for so many of you – all of your love, support and in this medium of a [...]

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My Painful Confession

December 14, 2009 · 7 comments

I wrote this prayer this morning after dumping my guts out to the Lord. I thought after-the-fact that I would share it with you all to let you into my head, heart and soul within this journey I’m on. The following is not a blame game, nor am I ever pretending that I am in any way the [...]

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I will be resuming the previous discussion about Activism tomorrow, as I apologize for the brief departure over the last few days.

It has been a very rough week for me personally as life and death, excitement and pain, have all closely hovered around my daily existence. Two family members had unexpected surgery this past week, [...]

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What Did You Say?

October 2, 2009 · 17 comments

Earlier this year I got to meet a very well known New York Times Bestselling author who is a Christian, published by a Christian publishing house, who writes about Christian themes. I’ve sat on this post for some time because I wasn’t sure what to do with this information. I was going to call him out [...]

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Here are points 3-5 in answering yesterday’s question, “Who put YOU in charge?”
3. There is no other national voice doing or saying what I am. This is not to say that there are not other people around the country talking about this topic! I am not being cocky with this statement. There are plenty of [...]

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In light of the last few posts and the string of passionate comments in those posts, I want to talk about a question I get asked a lot:
“Who put YOU in charge?”
Sometimes I get that in a completely sarcastic tone, sometimes an angry tone, sometimes it’s just a genuine query. I’ve never really thought about [...]

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This is a question that has been on my heart a lot recently for a few different reasons. I have prayed for many things in my life that have not been answered—some of which are theologically important to me:
Why am I me and given the inherent right that comes with being a straight, white male; [...]

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As the end of 2008 continues to arrive quicker then I know what to do with, I wanted to reflect a little bit on what I’ve learned about myself. This past year has been a year of many firsts and big happenings:
-I got married-I wrote and edited a book-My Grandpa (who taught me what a [...]

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